Make This Year, A “Sexy Christmas!” Your Partner Will Love!

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Editor’s Update October 27, 2025:
These days, my work has evolved from fitness and body confidence into something deeper helping my clients reconnect with their energy, purpose, and authentic magnetism through Human Design and Astrology. Because “sexy” isn’t just how you look, it’s how aligned and alive you feel.

If you’re craving that kind of soul-lit glow-up this season, start by running your chart or exploring how your unique design shapes your energy and relationships. You can grab your free human design chart {Scroll to the bottom for tips on how to rev things up based on your partner’s human design energetic type.}

My husband and I are obsessed with the show Ted Lasso if you haven’t watched it. Take a weekend and binge the entire three seasons that are currently available! You will not regret this life choice. The show is worth all the hype.

Anyway, in one of 2nd season episodes, two of the main characters, Roy and Keeley, share their plans for a sexy Christmas with a whole swanky Frank Sinatra-esque vibe. Sadly, their “Sexy Christmas” is thwarted by Roy’s niece Phoebe and a case of intolerable and dry-heaving-inducing bad breath. So their “Sexy Christmas” is moved to Sexy December 28th, as Roy declares, “is the sexiest day anyhow.” (again, best writing!) But the whole scene and idea got me thinking…

After 24 years of marriage, I love keeping romance alive and finding fun ways to surprise my man. So this year, I am taking a page from the lovebirds Roy and Keeley and incorporating my take on Sexy Christmas in our home. And, of course, I want to share all my crazy research and “Sexy Christmas” finds with you so you, too, can get in on the fun and share a bit of spicy fun this holiday season with your significant other.

So if your significant other is on the nice list, and you want to gift them with a naughty Christmas, you are in the right place!

This is all in good, classy fun. Like many self-proclaimed “good girls,” talking about sex was something I didn’t feel comfortable talking about. But I have seen firsthand that many marriages are suffering as a result! Sex is something we need to talk about and acknowledge that it is a massive part of our overall health, personally and in our intimate relationships. The fact of the matter is that strong, healthy marriages and relationships involve really good sex! So let’s take away the shame, guilt, and stigma and have some fun with this essential part of our relationships!

It All Starts With The Right Sexy Christmas Outfits!

I scoured the internet, and if you want to surprise “Santa Claus with a sexy “Mrs. Claus” panty set, these are the ones! They are super fun and definitely spicy!

1. This sweet, lacy red number could be used year-round, not just during this time.
2. This Christmas Lingerie Two-Piece Set comes with a Santa bra and panties, plus a Garter Belt. It is simple, classy, and has the perfect sexy Santa vibes.
3. If you like booty shorts and tankini-style tops, this set is perfect for you!
4. This option leaves little to the imagination, but it makes it perfectly clear that you are the Christmas gift! 
5. If you like the bow/gift idea but want something a bit easier to get yourself into, this two-piece bow set might be a better option. The satin bow accent is always a classy move!
6. This skimpy Christmas set is super tiny and has very little fabric. But it does come with a festive Santa hat to complete the sassy ensemble.

If you are looking to go the route of sexy Christmas costumes, I’ve got you!

1. This sexy fitted Santa costume will surely steam things up at the North Pole with this fitted mini skirt!
2. This sexy Santa outfit with a full skirt would be safe to wear to a holiday party and not just the bedroom. But sure, still to spice things up!
3. This one is sure to be a hit with the off-the-shoulder dress, red sequins, and candy cane tights!
4. This sheer Santa baby doll dress might not stay on too long.
5. Sometimes, the only thing you need to wear is just a jacket with a black belt.
6. Shake things up with this sexy elf costume and show that Santa’s little helper is also down for some fun!

Why should the ladies have all the fun? Here are some sexy Christmas Costumes for Men!

1. These sassy, shimmering red Santa boxer shorts are just fun!
2. This Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer thong would make the perfect white elephant gift and spice things up, for sure!
3. They prove once again that Santa’s little helper can also be hecka sexy in this manly, sexy elf costume.
4. This Elf Costume is also super manly and just the right touch of sexy!
5. I totally agree with the sentiment that a suit is like lingerie for women. And this fitted Santa Suit is HOT!
6. This sexy Christmas ensemble is a classic! Sure to make Christmas Eve magical.

Next Comes Picking The Perfect Get In The Mood Christmas Song! Here is a list of the sexiest Christmas Music.

• I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus -Jessica Simpson’s rendition
• Santa Claus Is Back In Town- Elvis Presley
• I’ll Be Your Santa, Baby – Rufus Thomas
• I’ve Got Some Presents For Santa – Sarah Taylor and Bill Mumy
• Wit It This Christmas – Ariana Grande
• Christmas Eve-Justin Bieber
• Santa Baby – Eartha Kitt
• All I Want For Christmas Is You – Mariah Carey
• White Christmas -Michael Buble
• Let it Snow – Boyz II Men
• Mistletoe – Colbie Caillat
• Merry Christmas, Darling – Christina Perri
• Christmas Memories – She & Him
• Cuddle Up – Catey Shaw
• All I Need Is You – Maggie Rose

These are just a few ideas. I found this awesome playlist on Spotify titled “Sexy, Sexy Christmas: The Naughty List.” It is an excellent list with so many sultry and sweet Christmas jams, perfect for setting the mood.

To start spicing things up, try texting some of these flirty + scandalous Christmas quotes!

The only package I want this Christmas is yours.

I’d like to jingle your balls.

All I want for Christmas is you.

Let’s be naughty and save Santa the trip.

Can I sit on your lap and tell you what I want this year?

Baby, it’s cold outside… let’s warm each other up?

You light me up like a Christmas tree.

Want to hear my grown-up Christmas list?

I’d ride that sleigh.

I wish I were a present so I could get laid under the Christmas tree.

I hope this post inspires you to make this year a bit different! To embrace and make sure your significant other feels how much you still love them and want them! After I posted my 30-Day Love Challenge, I heard that many of you struggle in this area of your life! Intimacy within marriage after so long takes work! But finding fun ways to spice things up and play is so important! Don’t let the flame of your passion burn out.

If you’re on the hunt for sultry gifts to craft the ultimate “sexy stocking”—a personal favorite surprise for Mr. Thueson, look no further! Head over to my Amazon storefront for a curated selection of spicy ideas to heat your holiday.

And here’s a little secret: Tabs Chocolate makes an amazing stocking stuffer. They’re our absolute favorite—we buy them in bulk because, well, you never know when the mood will strike! Let’s just say these little chocolates really deliver the goods. (Use code LOVE627809 to save 15%!)

So head over to Amazon and order some sexy Santa costumes, or heck, since it’s close to Halloween, buy a sexy Christmas Halloween costume at your local Halloween store. They usually have a good selection of sexy costumes. I sometimes go right after Halloween and pick up a few sexy costumes at 50% off to surprise Kelly throughout the year! Yes, we love keeping things interesting!

Final Notes On Having Yourself a Sexy Christmas

What began as a post about creating a “Sexy Christmas” has turned into something much bigger, a reminder that real attraction and connection start from the inside out. Knowing your partner’s Human Design is a complete game-changer in building intimacy within a partnership/marriage.

Want to really turn up the magic this year? Here’s how to energetically and intimately connect on a deeper level based on your partner’s Human Design type.

• Projectors → Make them feel deeply seen. Nothing turns on a Projector faster than genuine recognition. Surprise them with something that shows you’ve really noticed their desires, their favorite candle scent, a playlist you curated just for them, or words that reflect how much you value their wisdom and presence.
• Generators & Manifesting Generators → Follow their spark. Pay attention to what makes them light up and lean in. Whether it’s music, movement, laughter, or a cozy cooking session together, weave those elements of play and pleasure into the night. (Bonus: a slow jam playlist always hits their sacral sweet spot.)
• Manifestors → Let them lead the adventure. Manifestors crave freedom and creative spontaneity, so surprise them or invite a little novelty into your plans. Think bold, playful, and unexpected. The key is to spark fresh energy, not routine.
• Reflectors → Set the vibe. Reflectors are deeply attuned to their environment, so focus on the atmosphere, soft lighting, sensual music, and a clean and calm space. Create a scene that feels luxurious, nurturing, and energetically clear. When the space feels right, they’ll melt into the moment.

Because at the end of the day, sexy isn’t a look, it’s an energy you co-create when you both feel safe, seen, and in sync.

Merry Christmas, Friends, and let’s have some fun making this year the “sexiest Christmas ever!”

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